Recycling Your Pain

broken heartIn the city where I live, as in many cities in the U.S., recycling is a routine way of handling the millions of tons of trash produced daily. But did you know we have a God who loves recycling?

“God is in the recycling business; He recycles our pain,” said the leader of our Celebrate Recovery recently.

That statement is not new or original with this leader. It has been used in lessons for Celebrate Recovery and other recovery programs for years.

As I heard the statement this time, I saw parallels between the process I go through in order for the city to recycle my garbage and how God recycles pain.

  1. You must sort out the things to be recycled. The city where I live tells me what they will accept for recycling. In the same way, God wants you to take the time to examine your life and see where you need Him to recycle your pain. You may be walking around with years of pain. It’s directly affecting the way you relate to others, but you have not identified the pain or its source. You must take the time to sort out (identify) your pain before God can recycle it.
  1. You must put out the recycling. If all you do is sort the paper and plastics, and leave the container sitting in your garage, recycling will not take place. The city will not come into your garage and take it. You must put it out on the curb in order for it to be taken to be recycled.

    In the same way, God cannot recycle your pain unless you give it to Him. He will not come in and take the pain without you giving it to Him.

In some cases you already may have sorted the pain, but are not ready and willing to give it to God for His recycling work to take place in your life.

I recall as a kid being wrongfully accused of stealing. I could not convince anyone I did not do it. The pain of not being believed was a defining moment in my life. I lived with that pain well into my adult years. When I sorted through my life and discovered how the pain of that one event had led me to not trust people, I realized that in order to be free of that pain I had to give it to God to be recycled.

Today I can say God has recycled my pain of mistrust, not only to the point where I now trust others, but more importantly, I have become a trustworthy person.

What pain are you walking around with that is impacting your life in a negative way that you need to give to God to be recycled?

  • Betrayal
  • Abuse
  • Lied to
  • Broken relationship
  • Abandoned
  • Used

I challenge you to sort through your area of struggle, identify the pain, and give it to God for recycling.

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Illustration by Sandra Wurdemann